30 Elm Street
30 Elm Street
By Sheila Guidera
Elm Street, inSouthamptonVillage, is a beautiful residential street that runs North-
South. The railroad station is at the North end,Hampton Roadand the Grade School and
what was the High School, at the South end, onHampton Road. My former High School
is nowSouthamptonTown Hall. Elm Street is lined with mature leafy trees, the homes
well maintained two story, some with wraparound porches, turrets, and cupolas. Our
home was not one of the Victorian wonders, but it did have a covered front porch, up four
broad steps from the lawn.
From the time I was one year old, until I was eleven, we lived at30 Elm Street. I
don’t have many memories before my sister, Pennie, was born. I was three years old. I
remember being introduced to her–she was lying in my old crib, and I somehow resented
that–and my first thought was ”Why did they do that? They told me I was perfect!” I
thought my parents might decide they didn’t need another child after all, and send her
back. But she was here to stay. Our brother, Michael, was born when I was seven, and
Pennie was four. He was not perfect. He was hydrocephalic, with a big round, squashy
head, and wasn’t here to stay. He died when he was six months old. His many
hospitalizations were costly, and my parents were paying for his short life for many years.
Now it was 1947, I was ten, and Pennie was seven.
At ten, I had the whole Santa Claus thing pretty well figured out. Santa wasn’t quite
as benevolent and giving as he was cracked up to be; an awful lot of what was under the
tree on Christmas morning was directly related to the amount of spare money your
parents had. I thought that in a perfect world, the kids whose parents had the least
amount of money would have gotten the most from Santa–lots of wonderful toys, new
clothes, and warm coats–perhaps even a sumptuous Christmas feast left in a shiny new
red wagon. It was the Christmas before, when I was nine and sister Pennie was six–that I
realized the inequity. Our first cousin, Fay, was an only child. Both of her parents
worked; a rarity in those days. Her Mom was a registered nurse, working private
duty atSouthamptonHospital, and her Dad worked at theSouthampton Post Office,
(where Village Hall is now), a government job , immune to cutbacks and layoffs,
whose busiest season, with lots of overtime, was Christmas. I had been perfectly happy
with my Christmas gifts until we went to Fay’s house for a Christmas Day visit. She had
more stuff from Santa than Pennie and me put together! And it was so special–the
prettiest doll, and not just one. With a doll trunk full of clothes. Books and games
galore. A fluffy white fur hat and muff. And more.
So the year I was ten, I was ready for the let-down on Christmas morning. I had
already been warned by Mom to be understated in my letter to Santa. What I really,
really, wanted was a bicycle. I hadn’t had my ridiculous growth spurt yet–I was to grow
eleven inches in the next year, between eleven and twelve–so at ten, I was actually small
for my age, and really needed a mid-size bike. This was an impossible request, so I didn’t
even mention it in my letter to Santa. I decided to be brave and grown-up about the whole
gift thing. As the older daughter, I reminded myself, I had this responsibility.
Our family had had another financially bad year, although we kids didn’t entirely
realize it at the time. My Dad worked for Bell Telephone Company, and had been on
strike. At the time, it seemed endless, with lots of adult worrying about money, as there
was no such thing as strike benefits or any other source of income. We ate a lot of codfish